Today
was my favorite holiday of the year. Or maybe my second favorite holiday, as I
really like Easter for some reason. But anyway, as for today, today we
celebrated “Little Christmas”, more commonly known among those of the Roman
Catholic persuasion as the Feast of the Epiphany. I know from my own research, that Little Christmas is
commonly celebrated in Latin American countries but in my house it is celebrated
not because we are of Latin American descent (we’re not) but because I decided
I wanted a holiday all to myself.
Now I
didn’t set out to do this in the way that George Costanza’s father created
Festivus, but rather because in my house, as in most homes I’d guess, the
celebration of the holidays fell to the women. In my home, for instance, it is
my wife who has always taken the lead on the holidays and thank goodness for
that because, left to me, the holidays would be a dead bush in the corner and
bologna sandwiches in front of the television.
But
while I don’t want to take over the holidays, I did want to create something
that was Daddy’s day. Not a day where I am celebrated, by the way, but rather a
day when I celebrate all of those in my family. For you see, Little Christmas
in my home is a day when I give gifts to those in my family with explicit rules
that there is to be NO reciprocation. None. I wanted one day when I get to play
Santa Claus.
No
discussing of gift ideas with anyone, no shopping with anyone. I have to do it
all by myself. The thinking, the buying, the wrapping. And, as a rule, it’s not
to be anything big, but rather something small and, in many ways, insignificant
compared to the gifts just received on Christmas. Because the idea behind the day
is that it isn’t the value of the gift, but rather the fact that I want to show
my kids and my wife how much I love them.
I guess,
now that I look back at it on paper, I am doing what God did in sending us
Jesus. He gave a gift (albeit a bit more significant than my trinkets) just
from him to everyone else. I never thought of it that way and I didn’t intend
for this to become religious, but I do see a connection there.
Anyway, today was my holiday. Tomorrow the lights and the tree come down
and we’re back to normal for another three hundred and thirty days or so. Merry (Little) Christmas.
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